Monday, February 9, 2009

How to get noticed - Create the perfect profile

It's not hard to get noticed on an adult dating site, in my opinion, it's actually much easier than getting noticed in the real world! Seriously, I consider myself to be an attractive female (not to sound conceited, because I'm definitely not!). However, when I go out to the bars, clubs, a party or whatever, I may get one or two guys hitting on me. Usually not always 'my type' of guys either, and like I said earlier, if I'm not looking to get serious, the last place I want to hook up is at a place I visit frequently. When I put a profile up on a dating site, the response is somewhat overwhelming. I think it all boils down to it being an easier way of approaching someone. Especially when you're putting yourself out there for a specific relationship.

A perfect adult dating profile

So, what is the perfect profile? Well, I see a lot of people making profiles with 2 lines of text, a picture and something along the lines of "I need a chick to come suck me off". Wow! If you think that's going to work, think again, bud! We are real people, with real needs but that does not mean we are going to jump in bed with just anyone. Be creative, be real, talk about yourself, your likes, dislikes, hobbies, interests, kinks, fantasies... you get my point! If you've got a sense of humor, show it, most girls love guys who can make them laugh. Back it up with some pictures and you're good to go. Make sure those pictures aren't from 10 years or 20 lbs ago, either. Remember, you're looking to meet so eventually he or she will see if you are, who you said you were. If you really want to get noticed, be creative when writing your profile!

Okay, but is there really such thing as the perfect profile?

Probably not, but there are some that grab your attention much quicker than others. Most girls who have fantasies and want to act them out, also have the 'perfect' man in mind that they're fantasizing about doing this with. Your picture is VERY important. If you want a girl (or guy) to even read your profile, you better have a good picture that makes them want to click on your profile and read more about you. Don't show your manly hood! Maybe this approach works for guys (as far as posting nudes) but it definitely doesn't work for women! We DON'T want to see what you have below the waist before we even see what's above it! Attraction starts from the face down (for girls anyway!). Haven't you heard of the expression, leave something to the imagination?


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